Trophy Husband to Sarah.
SuperDad to Stetson and Tytus.
Builder of Men and Mission.
My journey of transformation began with one simple decision: to reclaim my life.
It was a pivotal moment when I found myself at rock bottom – a public divorce, the loss of loved ones, and a life-threatening health crisis. In 2016, I had no idea how to rebuild my life in a healthy, sustainable way.
I initially fell for the trap of overworking and people-pleasing, as a childhood and adolescence of feeling loved and worth loving only when I was solving problems or helping others found itself at the forefront of my identity: I was a “fixer.”
For 13 years, I worked in pastoral ministry; walking with people through every season of life, building robust infrastructure and growing communities across the country. That said, you can understand the complexity of trying to justify overworking to my family, as my job was “God” and God was my “job.”
The truth...
I was Burnt Out
Not because of a lack of faith or belief in what I was called to, but because I had never developed a sense of identity outside of what I was doing or how I was useful.
After going septic in late 2016 as a result of mounting stress, overwhelm and the trauma of losing 8 family members and close friends to very tragic means…
I knew something had to change. I stepped out of occupational ministry to not only reclaim myself, but to help others who found themselves in the same cycle of sacrificing their soul on the altar of their success.
But I haven’t stopped there
I've learned that just because we face devastating setbacks, doesn't mean we can't build extraordinary lives.
Just because we’ve sacrificed our well-being for success, doesn’t mean we can’t have it all – a thriving career, loving relationships, and vibrant health.
And now, it isn’t just a theory; it’s a proven process.
After helping thousands of men and women transform their lives and businesses, I advise and coach entrepreneurs and leaders, helping them not only build world-class companies, but also in answering the deeper questions of faith, legacy and fulfillment.
I also own a portfolio of several entities in the home service space, as well as being partner in a thriving apparel company, beer company and travel the country as an in-demand keynote; all without missing practices, games or the moments that matter most with the ones I love.
The mission is simple: build culture that impacts the world for good.
Your chapter starts here...
If my story resonates with you, it's not by accident.
Every man reaches this crossroads – where gratitude for what you’ve built meets an undeniable hunger for what’s next.
You know the cost of success. You’ve felt the weight of early mornings and late nights. You’ve tasted the victory of hitting goals and the bitter reality that achievement alone doesn’t fill the soul. You’re grateful, but there’s still that fire inside that whispers, “There’s more.”
Here’s the truth: What got you here won’t get you there.
The next level of success – the kind that honors God, serves your family, and fulfills your calling – requires a different approach.
It requires someone who’s walked the path, who understands the unique challenges of being a builder, a father, a husband, and a man of faith.
This isn’t about working harder. It’s about building differently.
This is your invitation to step into something bigger.
To join a brotherhood of builders who refuse to sacrifice their souls on the altar of success. To create a legacy that extends beyond the bottom line.
The question isn’t whether you’re capable. The question is: Are you ready?
